Meeting Women in Chicago

Hey Guys,
I have been getting dozens of emails from guys in Chicago who are interested in meeting women in Chicago. It is about time for another seminar.
It will be held on March 27th and the 28th on the NW side of Chicago's Hyatt Hotel.
If you want to do all of the above sign up for my newsletter on the side here for an opportunity to be the man you want to be.
Meeting Women in Chicago Attraction Seminar
The topics covered will be
-Inner Game
-From that place to her place
-Attraction building over the phone
-TEXT MESSAGING
-Fashion
-Intro to NLP
-Where Meeting Women In Chicago is the the most successul
-Lifestyle and Belief
-Sincere Direct Game
-Value and Self Worth
-Windows to the Soul
-Body Language and Vocal Tonality

This is going to be an excellent seminar with guest speeches from Hotfire (Online Dating) and Heartsin of Chicago.
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Yours,
Suave

MEETING WOMEN IN CHICAGO IS EASY!

PUA Podcast: Text Message Opener and More

Free Text Messaging Opener PODCAST!
PUA Podcast: Text Opener and More

Hotfire and I have a free podcast on "PUA Podcast: Text Opener and More." We were cruising around Chicago and there are a lot of questions I have answered from emails. Be sure to download the Text Message Opener Podcast.
You can download it Part 1: HERE
Part 2: HERE

How To Succeed with Women Review (Louis and Copeland)

I was looking for some new material to keep my brain juices flowing and I came across How to Succeed With Women in the dating/relationship section. It was carefully placed right next to The Game hahaha. I picked it up, scrolled through the pages, and made the presumption that it was just another "guru" who jumped on the bandwagon to make a quick buck. Seeing that I had a gift card and I was not set on buying something on the topic I bought it.
I am very happy that I did. It blows my mind that I have never heard of these guys, but they have been around since 1996! They have been gathering the material for their book for quite some time now. I am very impressed with the quality of the writing and the principles that are explained in this book. It covers EVERYTHING. I picked it up for about twenty bucks.
I highly endorse this book How to Succeed With Women and all of the products that Louis and Copeland have to offer.
I am very skeptical about all of the new material I run across but DAMN. You will enjoy it.

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PUA Text Messaging Technique Part 1: Space

PUA Text Messaging Technique Part 1: Space
The first thing we are going to look at in texting is simple, but it is crucial to understand.
Imagine that you are in your room on your computer and you are very comfortable. You are not disturbed, you have some relaxing music on. You are just in one of those relaxed states. Now...
Imagine that there are people knocking at your door every two minutes.
Not so comfortable anymore are you? Not so much into that relaxed state are you?
Well. The same thing applies for text messaging. Do not invade the girls space.
She gave you her number for a reason and you do not want to go ruining that by text messaging her every five minutes (if she is not responding). Respect her space and she will respect you as a man.

When to Call a Girl After You Get her Number

I have talked to many guys and women about the whole "when to call" topic. For instance,I have a friend who is pretty good with women and he swears by the whole "wait for three days" thing.
I believe that this is a total crock of shit.
By being a dominant male, if you meet a girl and exchange numbers, you should by all means contact her the next day. This does not mean call her.
DO NOT CALL HER THE NEXT DAY
Since the explosion of popularity in text messaging, the dating community is forever different. We can always be contacted instantly. This is a powerful tool, but it also adds a whole other level of dynamics into the conversation.
A text message can say a lot about you. From content to punctuation, it screams worlds about you.
I have been experimenting with various types of texts,times sent,and phone game.
Here is one simple rule that I live by.
If you get a girls number, simply text her the next day with something creative. Try to mention something about the interaction to link her back to that positive emotion.
If you were talking about how she cuts hair, mention something along those lines. Also, make sure you let her know that it was a pleasure meeting her. This displays interest, but not at a creepy level if done in the right way.
I will be following up a lot of text material on this webpage so sign up for the newsletter and also bookmark it.
Talk to you guys soon.

One on One Chat with Chicago Dating Guru on IMLIVE.com

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Suave PUA In-Field: Blockbuster Vibing (dynamic interactions)

Check it out.
A short audio clip of some in-field vibing with an attractive/spunky girl from a local video store.
Natural Vibing right here.

Suave In-Field Vibing
We will break it apart by time frames:

Me: Hello, I dont have my card with me, is that cool?
Her: You're fired (She was testing my confidence/strength to see if I would take offense)
Me: Oh yea? That's your fault.
Her: How is this my fault?
Me: I don't know. I just like blaming things on people.
Her: Do you have your id?
Me: I do have that. (I always try to answer questions in a sentence instead of one word answers. It's quite counter-intuitive.
Me: As long as you dont try to steal my identity were cool.
Her: Cmon dude...like. Just this once...
Me: Yea? If you stalk me or call me.. you know.. look me up.
Her: Fo sho (subconscious sarcasm agreeing to me owning the frame of the interaction)
Her: I only got your house number though? (Subconsciously asking for my personal number)
Me: I wouldnt call my house. (Letting her know I understand what she meant by the previous statement)
Her: Yea.. So im not gunna. (reinforcing that she would like my cell number)
Me: My parents would be terribly angry.
Her: (Giggles.Its on.I maintain the frame)
Her: Like, hey... Im stalking Tim(me).
Me: Oh hey.. see. She knows my name now. (She has personally tagged her interest on me)
Her: Well. It is in the system. (Excuse to recover)
{{Lots of push pull and approval seeking}}
Her: Do you have a valid credit card on you?
Me: I do not, is that bad?
Her: Yes. (Impartial sarcasm/flirting)
Me: I already did that
Her: Its not letting me take the card from you.
Me: Oh my God! I did that last time. K. Lemme make a phone call.

My friend uses his credit card for me.

nothing nothing nothing.....

Door dings.

Her: HEllo!
Me: There is a good atmosphere in here.
Her:Giggle
My friend: Well its X-mas season.
Her: Its not X-mas
Me: What season is it then??
Her: Im like this everyday.
Me: Yea right I dont believe that. (Throwing a little test at her to see if she would seek approval)
Her:(Calls her bosses name).. Tell him im like this everyday (seeking my approval)
Boss: Points to his head and pretends to shoot it. Implying she is crazy.
Me:So shes nuts? Shes Crazy?How do you roll with her?
Boss: Yea hahaha Shes a pain in the ass.
Her: Il show you pain....................................
in your...anal? (Slipping a bit sexual on me and also she did not even notice that she said this until she did. She was just as shocked as I was.)
Me: I dont know about that.
Bla Bla Bla
Thank you so much.

There you go guys. A nice little vibing conversation on audio for you to analyze and learn from.

Yours,
Suave

PUA Free Podcast: Suave/Heartsin- Hot Fire OKCUPID.COM Interview

Hey there.
Free podcast available for how to successfully meet women on OKCUPID.com.
An exclusive interview brought to you by DiscountPUA.com
Suave and Heartsin interview Hotfire (an internet dating guru from Chicago)
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Download the Interview/Podcast HERE
Yours,
Suave

PUA Suave In Field Recording Newsletter

Alright fellas...
Currently I have been working on some dynamic theories that can help you in your conversations. I am not talking about scripts or canned material. I am talking about getting some real vibing going. By signing up for my newsletter now I will be sending a free recording of in field work along with a fully broken down explanation of the entire interaction. You will discover how the goods are delivered. Oh... And did I mention. Its free.

PUA Teleconference December Podcast

Heartsin and I will be hosting a teleconference on the following topics of approach anxiety,fashion,logic verses emotion,and NLP. If you would like to participate and get some free knowlege email me your name and we will reply with the instructions on how to call us and get some free consultation.
Suave

Chicago PUA Dating Seminars

After talking things over with my partner in business,Heartsin, we have decided to conduct a workshop/seminar in the Chicagoland area. This is a real treat guys. We are putting a lot of though and work into revolutionizing the entire PUA community. This is not just pickup. This is about transformation. This is the full encompassed program that the community has been looking for. For more information and to sign up at our limited time discounted offer email me your name at suavepua@ymail.com. - look forward to speaking with all of you guys and am ready to get you into the "suave" mentality.
Yours,
Suave

Getting Over a Girl

Hello Gentlemen. I am here today to give you some advice on how to get over a breakup or a fallout from one you were diggin hardcore. I have been in relationships of all kinds. Long. Short. Open. Exclusive. When they do end, if you have invested true emotion into them, there will be a sense of loss. That loss is psychological. Since there is a direct link between psychology and physiology and the release of chemicals in our brain, it is important to remember that we can get over these emotions by logically looking at the situation. She is gone. She will be sleeping with someone else. She will be dating and marrying someone else. It is alright. You are not alone. There are millions of women out there. I know you have heard it before but by thinking of it this way, you will progress. Before she was in your life, you were alive. You smiled, you laughed, you were a real alive breathing human being...and you still are without her. If there is anything I have realized on this journey of mine it is that the value and love I give myself is far more important than bending over backwards for anyone...including any women. I am me.

Sticking Points In Relationships

Good Evening gentlemen. I have not posted in a while due to a little sticking point. I've had recently started to find myself getting back into my ex girlfriend. I wonder why... But I already know. She's a maneater. She's a challenge. She has proven to be a prize and she is playing the game much like I have for so long now. Everyone has their weaknesses and I believe I have found mine. It does not mean that I cannot overcome it. The topic of emotion verses logic is not a highlighted topic covered in the pickup community. Well folks. I am here to bring it some attention. We met about half a year ago while I was immsersed into pick up. I truely did have emotions for her so I put down my guard and let this wonder in motion progress. It did... And then she dropped me like a bad habit at my most vulnerable stage. This brought me back even deeper into the pickup community. I did not want to ever feel that pain again. I wanted to look past all of that and prevail. I hate to tell you guys something. If you want to be an ethical and loving human you will have to take the risk of letting your guard down to let things prosper. What is the enjoyment in manipulating yourself into something wonderful? Be sure not to look at this community as an easy way to get into a girls pants, but also as a bitch filter to weed out the bad eggs.Remember...we are only human. Even the smoothest guys get caught up in one every once in a while.
Yours,
Suave

Sexy Costumes, Beer, and Neghits

I did not get the chance to tell this story, but it is quite entertaining. This last Halloween I was at a costume party with one of my wings and There was quite a few HBs there. After opening one set in particular, I started some comfort building with one sexy nurse. My wing and I were doubling up. I was with one, he was with the other. We had our targets and something weird happened. As I was talking the girl started try to steal my frame so I gave her a little neg. We got onto the topic of beauty. She was hot. I told her, beauty is common, and what else does she got going for her. Well....
I know that phrase is overused, but I had no idea it was that overused. She immediately said. Alright Mr. Venusian Arts. Have fun playing with yourself and listening to Mystery interviews.
SET TOTALLY BLOWN OUT!
I coulnt believe it. Well.... yea I could. I felt a little iffy before throwing it, but what can you do. Which led me onto my next part of the story. A few girls overheard the conversation and they opened us up.
"What was that all about?" They asked.
I told them the entire story and how I believed that beauty is common yadda yadda, but then I told them about Mystery and who he was.. and all that jazz.
They found it pretty interesting and in the end agreed that guys need to have more balls and take control of the frame in a conversation.
Cant argue with human instinct can ya?

Peace,

Suave

An important point to think of before meeting women online

Alright. So. You want to meet women online?
You want to have a steady flow of messages from women inside of your inbox.
You want to have dates every day of the week.
There is nothing wrong with that, but I have have had a few teleconferences with some PUAs from around the US on this topic and we discussed the topic thoroughly. We did not cover technique to much, but we did cover how investing to much time into your online game can really taper your success in the field.
Our body's are adaptive. The more time we invest into something, the more time our body subconsciously becomes better at. If we spend to much time typing away on myspace, we are wasting time that could be invested into something more beneficial in the field.
If you follow these few rules I have put together you will be able to create a balance between your online sarging and your everyday in field sarging.

1. Understand that Online is OnlineAlthough it can transfer into a real world meeting. Remember. Online is online. Although it is super easy to meet chicks this way, it takes away from the actual feeling of natural occurrence. When something is natural, women tend to believe it at face value. Since she has to deal with a bunch of dopes each day telling her that they want to pickle smack her.

2. When Meeting, Maintain Your State. The last thing she wants to see is a completely different guy that she was talking to over the messages.

3. If She Flakes, Forget Her. I know some guys who get bent up when a girl from MS flakes on them. Alright? All they really have to understand is that there are many different of reasons to why she did this.

Those are just a few, but me and Heartsin from DiscountPUA.com are going to be hosting a teleconference sometime over December that will cover a large amount of topics when it comes to meeting women on social networking sites.

www.DiscountPua.Com

A good buddy of mine from here in Chicago has started a new forum here . Our Chicago community is growing daily and we will be offering some high quality seminars/bootcamps for a fraction of the price. You can't beat it. Quality and valuable information...
I am a moderator and a guest poster. Although we are in the new stages it is going to explode.
Chicago Domination @ Discount PUA
Sign up at DiscountPua.com and join our community. You will not regret it.

-Suave

How to Make Money With Your Blog

Alright. I just got an email from Craig V from California and he was curious to know how I make money online. Well. I am not going to say my blog makes me millions, but it does pay enough money for me to go out and party on the weekends.
First and most importantly you need a blog. Sign up for blogger.com.

A dear friend of mine has been doing it for years and I learned a lot from him. His name is Tim McMahon and he is located in Chicago IL. Check out his blog at Make Money With Your Blog. He is a very intelligent guy and specializes in helping small businesses get noticed on the internet.

You can email him. He has told me that the first twenty five people who email him, he will give a free on email consultation. He will personally help you make money from your computer.

Aside from that, if you have any questions you can respond to my blog here.

Thank you.

Suave

PUA Field Report on "Why are you undressing me with your eyes opener?"

Yesterday, a few buddies of mine went out on a mission to find out what type of reaction women would have if I merely approached them and asked, "Why are you undressing me with your eyes?"
The results are as followed.

Girl 1.
Her response: "Why do you think that?"

My thoughts: If she questioned me about why I came to that assumption, there is a good chance that she was attracted to me.

Girl 2
Her response: "Dork." (Smile)

Girl 3
Her response: "Does your mother know you talk like that?"
My response: "Yea, and she tells me to approach semi-attractive women(sarcasm)
Her response: "Ha Ha" (smile)

Girl 4
Her reponse: "I am not. I was just looking at how funny your jacket is" (IOI)
My response: "Yea, one of my girlfriends knit it for me."
Her response: (smile)

Girl 6
Her response: "Get a life."

Girl 7
Her response: "Because I thought you needed some attention"

Girl 8
Her response: "OMG! I cant believe you said that"
Mine: "Yea, and your jacket kind of looks like a Zebra. Do you work at the Zoo?"
Hers: "I love animals!"
Mine: "I can tell, you seem to be getting all hot and bothered."
Hers: "(giggle)

Girl 9
Her response: "Why do you think that???"
(refer back to girl 1)

Girl 10
Her response: "You are funny!"
Mine: "Yea, I make people laugh and moan"
Hers: "Moan?"
Mine: "Yea, Moan."
Hers: "How?"
Mine: "Quit flirting with me, you are embarrassing yourself"
Hers: (Smile)
Mine: "What would your mother think of your actions?"
Hers: "(Laughing), There is a lot she does not know about me."
Mine: "Alright, seriously...You have got to stop trying to get into my pants."
Hers: "(Laughing), "Your wish is my command"
Mine: "Creepy. Are you some kind of genie? because if you are, I cant talk to you anymore. I have a huge crush on I Dream of Jeannie."
Hers: "Ha Ha Ha, I love her."
Mine: "I knew you like girls."
Hers: (Laughing)
Mine: "Listen, I gotta get out of here, but put your number in my phone. Program it as Jeannie fantasy girl, that way, if I ever feel the urge I can call you.
Hers: OKAY!

# close

Will post day two results soon.

Encounters with Confident Women

Today was a good day. I was attending my class as I do everyday, when I realized that I did not have any cigarettes on me. Me, being a cigarette addict, looked for a cigarette approached the first girl I saw smoking. She happened to be decent looking.
I approached her and said smoking kills. She responded with. "Get over it, we are all going to die someday."
I replied with, "good call, but your wit and ability to manipulate guys is not going to get you out of giving me a cigarette."
She giggled and reached into her purse.
I noticed that she had a little black planner book.
I accused her of being a pick up artist. She accused me of attempting to pick her up.
I told her that she would get a long with my sister at a sleepover, popcorn boytalk, and all that jazz.
I set a false time constraint, (I had class) and told her that it is dangerous to talk to strangers.
She slipped me her number on a notebook page.
Success.