Getting Over a Girl

Hello Gentlemen. I am here today to give you some advice on how to get over a breakup or a fallout from one you were diggin hardcore. I have been in relationships of all kinds. Long. Short. Open. Exclusive. When they do end, if you have invested true emotion into them, there will be a sense of loss. That loss is psychological. Since there is a direct link between psychology and physiology and the release of chemicals in our brain, it is important to remember that we can get over these emotions by logically looking at the situation. She is gone. She will be sleeping with someone else. She will be dating and marrying someone else. It is alright. You are not alone. There are millions of women out there. I know you have heard it before but by thinking of it this way, you will progress. Before she was in your life, you were alive. You smiled, you laughed, you were a real alive breathing human being...and you still are without her. If there is anything I have realized on this journey of mine it is that the value and love I give myself is far more important than bending over backwards for anyone...including any women. I am me.

Sticking Points In Relationships

Good Evening gentlemen. I have not posted in a while due to a little sticking point. I've had recently started to find myself getting back into my ex girlfriend. I wonder why... But I already know. She's a maneater. She's a challenge. She has proven to be a prize and she is playing the game much like I have for so long now. Everyone has their weaknesses and I believe I have found mine. It does not mean that I cannot overcome it. The topic of emotion verses logic is not a highlighted topic covered in the pickup community. Well folks. I am here to bring it some attention. We met about half a year ago while I was immsersed into pick up. I truely did have emotions for her so I put down my guard and let this wonder in motion progress. It did... And then she dropped me like a bad habit at my most vulnerable stage. This brought me back even deeper into the pickup community. I did not want to ever feel that pain again. I wanted to look past all of that and prevail. I hate to tell you guys something. If you want to be an ethical and loving human you will have to take the risk of letting your guard down to let things prosper. What is the enjoyment in manipulating yourself into something wonderful? Be sure not to look at this community as an easy way to get into a girls pants, but also as a bitch filter to weed out the bad eggs.Remember...we are only human. Even the smoothest guys get caught up in one every once in a while.
Yours,
Suave

Sexy Costumes, Beer, and Neghits

I did not get the chance to tell this story, but it is quite entertaining. This last Halloween I was at a costume party with one of my wings and There was quite a few HBs there. After opening one set in particular, I started some comfort building with one sexy nurse. My wing and I were doubling up. I was with one, he was with the other. We had our targets and something weird happened. As I was talking the girl started try to steal my frame so I gave her a little neg. We got onto the topic of beauty. She was hot. I told her, beauty is common, and what else does she got going for her. Well....
I know that phrase is overused, but I had no idea it was that overused. She immediately said. Alright Mr. Venusian Arts. Have fun playing with yourself and listening to Mystery interviews.
SET TOTALLY BLOWN OUT!
I coulnt believe it. Well.... yea I could. I felt a little iffy before throwing it, but what can you do. Which led me onto my next part of the story. A few girls overheard the conversation and they opened us up.
"What was that all about?" They asked.
I told them the entire story and how I believed that beauty is common yadda yadda, but then I told them about Mystery and who he was.. and all that jazz.
They found it pretty interesting and in the end agreed that guys need to have more balls and take control of the frame in a conversation.
Cant argue with human instinct can ya?

Peace,

Suave

An important point to think of before meeting women online

Alright. So. You want to meet women online?
You want to have a steady flow of messages from women inside of your inbox.
You want to have dates every day of the week.
There is nothing wrong with that, but I have have had a few teleconferences with some PUAs from around the US on this topic and we discussed the topic thoroughly. We did not cover technique to much, but we did cover how investing to much time into your online game can really taper your success in the field.
Our body's are adaptive. The more time we invest into something, the more time our body subconsciously becomes better at. If we spend to much time typing away on myspace, we are wasting time that could be invested into something more beneficial in the field.
If you follow these few rules I have put together you will be able to create a balance between your online sarging and your everyday in field sarging.

1. Understand that Online is OnlineAlthough it can transfer into a real world meeting. Remember. Online is online. Although it is super easy to meet chicks this way, it takes away from the actual feeling of natural occurrence. When something is natural, women tend to believe it at face value. Since she has to deal with a bunch of dopes each day telling her that they want to pickle smack her.

2. When Meeting, Maintain Your State. The last thing she wants to see is a completely different guy that she was talking to over the messages.

3. If She Flakes, Forget Her. I know some guys who get bent up when a girl from MS flakes on them. Alright? All they really have to understand is that there are many different of reasons to why she did this.

Those are just a few, but me and Heartsin from DiscountPUA.com are going to be hosting a teleconference sometime over December that will cover a large amount of topics when it comes to meeting women on social networking sites.