I have recently put together an Ebook that is free to the public. PUA Book Ebook.
It can be downloaded and viewed 25Quick Tips That Trigger Attraction.
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Sunday, November 2, 2008
My Interpretation of the 3 Second Rule
The three second rule. On fast Fast Seduction's 3 Second Rule it states (and many others state) that a man has three seconds to approach a girl before he starts to display lower value. As the time eats away, his value is dramatically dropping.
It is important to make everything look natural. As I have mentioned before "the moment" means everything to women. If you notice an attractive women while you are at the bar, make eye contact, look away, and then do not approach her, you are dramatically decreasing your chances. Since you did not approach her or make her presence known, it is pretty much over.
MAN UP AND HAVE SOME BALLS.
It is important to make everything look natural. As I have mentioned before "the moment" means everything to women. If you notice an attractive women while you are at the bar, make eye contact, look away, and then do not approach her, you are dramatically decreasing your chances. Since you did not approach her or make her presence known, it is pretty much over.
MAN UP AND HAVE SOME BALLS.
Five Peacock Items That Work
1.Pendant
A pendant can create some pretty easy IOI's.
Guitar Pick Necklace- Magic
2.A Ring
Do not be to flashy, but definitely find some sort of ring that you can tell a story about, or weave into a story to DHV.
3.Mismatching Shoelaces
Believe it or not, a good friend of mine has been very successful with this. It is ridiculous. At first, I was thinking that this would DLV, but in fact it has been a great opener in any scenario.
4. Belt Buckle
There are hundreds out there. Try Buckles to find one that best suits you.
5. Piercing
Instant IOI catcher. Try something you usually wouldnt do. I am not saying to walk out with holes in your face, but be creative.
A pendant can create some pretty easy IOI's.
Guitar Pick Necklace- Magic
2.A Ring
Do not be to flashy, but definitely find some sort of ring that you can tell a story about, or weave into a story to DHV.
3.Mismatching Shoelaces
Believe it or not, a good friend of mine has been very successful with this. It is ridiculous. At first, I was thinking that this would DLV, but in fact it has been a great opener in any scenario.
4. Belt Buckle
There are hundreds out there. Try Buckles to find one that best suits you.
5. Piercing
Instant IOI catcher. Try something you usually wouldnt do. I am not saying to walk out with holes in your face, but be creative.
http://www.fastseduction.com
Fastseduction.com is a remarkable community in which much valuable information can be obtained. Do yourself a favor and do not let it completely change your identity. Some of the posts on here are ridiculous.
Style: Neil Strauss: The Game
It is remarkable to understand how intelligent this man is. Not only,does he accurately explain some valuable information in this short interview, but he is calm, poise, and true alpha. I love how Jimmy Kimmel DLVs himself all throughout the interview.
Drinking Screws Up Your Game
1. Liquid Courage
Liquid courage as the old timers used to call it.
I used to be a heavy drinker, until I realized all of the benefits of not drinking.
When we do not drink in a PUA atmosphere, it is surprising how perceptive we can be. This will result in less flakes, and less nervousness on day 2s. How are you supposed to talk about yesterday if you do not remember it?
Liquid courage as the old timers used to call it.
I used to be a heavy drinker, until I realized all of the benefits of not drinking.
When we do not drink in a PUA atmosphere, it is surprising how perceptive we can be. This will result in less flakes, and less nervousness on day 2s. How are you supposed to talk about yesterday if you do not remember it?
Why did she flake on you?
1.You were clingy
When she gave you her phone number, and you danced around and got all excited, you lost it there buddy. If it does not look natural then you've gotta build up your inner game.
2.She is not in the moment anymore
SYou are not in her mind. She cannot remember what your face looks like. You didnt make that much of an impression. These are all possibilities. This is why I recommend planning something while you are in the moment. This way, if she flakes on you, there is a recovery period for you.
3. She heard something about you
Girls talk...and talk... and talk.. and talk.
We cannot blame them though. It is a defense mechanism that protects them from getting hurt. If you have built a bad reputation, there is a good chance that it could have contributed. This is especially particular if you are quite popular in your circle or area.
4. She actually had something to do
Girls are beautiful human beings guys. They are human beings. If you objectify them, then there is a good chance you will not see that they in fact, have things that come up out of no where.
5. She really was not into at all, and she felt bad
Sad, but true. It happens. Some girls cannot be direct. Move on and do not let it bother you. There are many out there.
When she gave you her phone number, and you danced around and got all excited, you lost it there buddy. If it does not look natural then you've gotta build up your inner game.
2.She is not in the moment anymore
SYou are not in her mind. She cannot remember what your face looks like. You didnt make that much of an impression. These are all possibilities. This is why I recommend planning something while you are in the moment. This way, if she flakes on you, there is a recovery period for you.
3. She heard something about you
Girls talk...and talk... and talk.. and talk.
We cannot blame them though. It is a defense mechanism that protects them from getting hurt. If you have built a bad reputation, there is a good chance that it could have contributed. This is especially particular if you are quite popular in your circle or area.
4. She actually had something to do
Girls are beautiful human beings guys. They are human beings. If you objectify them, then there is a good chance you will not see that they in fact, have things that come up out of no where.
5. She really was not into at all, and she felt bad
Sad, but true. It happens. Some girls cannot be direct. Move on and do not let it bother you. There are many out there.
PUA Day 2 Ideas
1.Mall
She is going to help you pick out some new clothes. Do display any lower value here, but merely tell her you are interested in what kind of style she sees you as. Make it an adventure.
2.The Park
Swings, Monkey Bars, etc.. Build mad rapport and comfort.
3.This is my gem:Drive In: 50s Style Hotdog Stand
This one is pretty much money. Talk, eat (not like a pig), comfort build.
4.Concert
She is going to help you pick out some new clothes. Do display any lower value here, but merely tell her you are interested in what kind of style she sees you as. Make it an adventure.
2.The Park
Swings, Monkey Bars, etc.. Build mad rapport and comfort.
3.This is my gem:Drive In: 50s Style Hotdog Stand
This one is pretty much money. Talk, eat (not like a pig), comfort build.
4.Concert
How Many Days To Wait To Call
That is a million dollar question.
I have my own belief, but before reading this, it may help to read When To Call.
I have gotten many emails asking me when it is good to call a girl after she has given you her number.
I have put together a strict game-plan (changeable by situation of course).
Bars and Clubs
Bar or Club. If the alcohol is flowing, CALL THE NEXT DAY. Mystery and Style have said that if you are in a bar and club, and she is moderately good looking, she has given her number out to many that night. Call her up. Do not day 2 it yet. DHV and make it short. Always hang up first.
Call two days later and set up a day 2.
Street, Coffee Shops, Mall
Three days. DHV and comfort build shortly on phone. Set up a day 2 on the phone.
I have my own belief, but before reading this, it may help to read When To Call.
I have gotten many emails asking me when it is good to call a girl after she has given you her number.
I have put together a strict game-plan (changeable by situation of course).
Bars and Clubs
Bar or Club. If the alcohol is flowing, CALL THE NEXT DAY. Mystery and Style have said that if you are in a bar and club, and she is moderately good looking, she has given her number out to many that night. Call her up. Do not day 2 it yet. DHV and make it short. Always hang up first.
Call two days later and set up a day 2.
Street, Coffee Shops, Mall
Three days. DHV and comfort build shortly on phone. Set up a day 2 on the phone.
David Deangelo: A Fraud or a Genious
David Deangelo...
From his program Double Your Dating along with other audio and video courses,he has created a gigantic following. It is quite evident that he is no dummy. I have followed much of his work and have become a firm believe in many of his theories. Cocky, Funny. On Being a Man, Mastery Program, Body Language. I have taken a deeper look into all of his products and found out that his products were very effective. As buyers, we should be skeptic on everything we do buy. How are we supposed to believe it is the real deal?
Well. I am here to alleviate all of your worries. Although David is an extremely successful marketer of his products, can you blame him? His products have changed people's lives for the good. Can we judge a product merely because it is marketed so well? Well..... Mcdonalds makes us believe differently, but if you have every attended one of David's seminars, you would know that he is an excellent speaker, remarkably charismatic, and and overall good looking guy. It is not his fault that he is the way he is.
By looking at his products and following up on the theories presented. I have come to the conclusion that anyone can benefit from them. Even if you think you are a superfly pimp. Learning about the critical counterintuitive and instinctive courtship will blow your mind... Epiphany.
From his program Double Your Dating along with other audio and video courses,he has created a gigantic following. It is quite evident that he is no dummy. I have followed much of his work and have become a firm believe in many of his theories. Cocky, Funny. On Being a Man, Mastery Program, Body Language. I have taken a deeper look into all of his products and found out that his products were very effective. As buyers, we should be skeptic on everything we do buy. How are we supposed to believe it is the real deal?
Well. I am here to alleviate all of your worries. Although David is an extremely successful marketer of his products, can you blame him? His products have changed people's lives for the good. Can we judge a product merely because it is marketed so well? Well..... Mcdonalds makes us believe differently, but if you have every attended one of David's seminars, you would know that he is an excellent speaker, remarkably charismatic, and and overall good looking guy. It is not his fault that he is the way he is.
By looking at his products and following up on the theories presented. I have come to the conclusion that anyone can benefit from them. Even if you think you are a superfly pimp. Learning about the critical counterintuitive and instinctive courtship will blow your mind... Epiphany.
Real Social Dynamics Review
I am a man of morals. Recently, I have taken a liking to the studies of social dynamics, male-female interaction, and scientifically structured views on dating. Mystery, a well known "pick-up" artist in the seduction community has developed a method known as the Mystery Method. Many women cringe at the site of his products and believe he is some sort of manipulative male. The truth is, he is just like any other male. Far more intelligent and very scientific. After researching his program and methods I have realized that in no way is he a womanizer. The only thing he truly wants is men to be able to treat women the way it was meant to be. His evidence is based off of various biological and human behavior studies.
After following this program for quite some time now, I have became a part of the community due to my longing for knowledge and quest for answers. I came across these guys at Real Social Dynamics. The motivational and insight these guys give to everyday normal people, who are not very good with women, is extraordinary. They are truly there to help. They are there to help these men discover what it truly means to be a man. They have a free newsletter and me myself, have attended one of their programs. It completely blew my mind and confirmed much of the research I was already conducting. If you want to take a deeper look into RSD click the link the image and it will redirect you to their page. Go for it!
After following this program for quite some time now, I have became a part of the community due to my longing for knowledge and quest for answers. I came across these guys at Real Social Dynamics. The motivational and insight these guys give to everyday normal people, who are not very good with women, is extraordinary. They are truly there to help. They are there to help these men discover what it truly means to be a man. They have a free newsletter and me myself, have attended one of their programs. It completely blew my mind and confirmed much of the research I was already conducting. If you want to take a deeper look into RSD click the link the image and it will redirect you to their page. Go for it!
Five Must Have Items to Bring Out on a Date
1. Cell phone- You never know when there is going to be some sort of emergency. It is always imperative to have your cell phone charged fully before going out.
2. Gum- I cannot stress the importance enough. This one dollar investment can be the difference between, going home alone, or staying at her place. I recommend Orbit... and you have to admit. Their marketing strategy is pretty hilarious.
3.Cologne Now, some people may argue with me here, but a little cologne goes a long way. Not only does it make you smell good, but it also gives the idea that you are prepared and being respectful in a dating atmosphere. AND GUYS. Do yourself a favor and do not spray on something that smells like you just came out of a locker room. Axe and Tag are out of the question. I have had immense success and compliments from wearing the cologne Diesel Fuel For Life. It is absolutely hypnotizing. Be classy, don't take an axe bath.
4.Credit Card---Some guys are very anti-credit card, but in a pinch when your money runs low, it is important to have one. If you are a college student, apply for some sort of college student credit card with a low limit so that you don't end up falling into debt.
5.Condoms---You never know when the mood might strike, or what might happen. TROJAN MAN!
2. Gum- I cannot stress the importance enough. This one dollar investment can be the difference between, going home alone, or staying at her place. I recommend Orbit... and you have to admit. Their marketing strategy is pretty hilarious.
3.Cologne Now, some people may argue with me here, but a little cologne goes a long way. Not only does it make you smell good, but it also gives the idea that you are prepared and being respectful in a dating atmosphere. AND GUYS. Do yourself a favor and do not spray on something that smells like you just came out of a locker room. Axe and Tag are out of the question. I have had immense success and compliments from wearing the cologne Diesel Fuel For Life. It is absolutely hypnotizing. Be classy, don't take an axe bath.
4.Credit Card---Some guys are very anti-credit card, but in a pinch when your money runs low, it is important to have one. If you are a college student, apply for some sort of college student credit card with a low limit so that you don't end up falling into debt.
5.Condoms---You never know when the mood might strike, or what might happen. TROJAN MAN!
Social Networking Sites, Reality TV, and Girls
The world of dating has changed drastically with the develop of social networking sites such as Myspace and reality television. Shows such as Paris Hilton's New BFFs have changed the way many young girls view the idea of friendship. These terrible stereotypes prey on the identities of young teenagers who are merely looking for role models and guidance. Although, in my opinion, it is the parent's responsibility to prepare these young girls for the real world, MTV's marketing department knows that these shows sell.
Anti-MTV is a website that warns the newer generation of how the music industry manipulates the lives of average people and turns their identities into profit raking ventures.
Although this website is targeted towards dating success, I believe that this is an important topic to throw out into the open. Parent's should warn their young ones (even though it is hard for them to understand) about the dangers present in everyday television.
Anti-MTV is a website that warns the newer generation of how the music industry manipulates the lives of average people and turns their identities into profit raking ventures.
Although this website is targeted towards dating success, I believe that this is an important topic to throw out into the open. Parent's should warn their young ones (even though it is hard for them to understand) about the dangers present in everyday television.
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