Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Sexy Costumes, Beer, and Neghits

I did not get the chance to tell this story, but it is quite entertaining. This last Halloween I was at a costume party with one of my wings and There was quite a few HBs there. After opening one set in particular, I started some comfort building with one sexy nurse. My wing and I were doubling up. I was with one, he was with the other. We had our targets and something weird happened. As I was talking the girl started try to steal my frame so I gave her a little neg. We got onto the topic of beauty. She was hot. I told her, beauty is common, and what else does she got going for her. Well....
I know that phrase is overused, but I had no idea it was that overused. She immediately said. Alright Mr. Venusian Arts. Have fun playing with yourself and listening to Mystery interviews.
SET TOTALLY BLOWN OUT!
I coulnt believe it. Well.... yea I could. I felt a little iffy before throwing it, but what can you do. Which led me onto my next part of the story. A few girls overheard the conversation and they opened us up.
"What was that all about?" They asked.
I told them the entire story and how I believed that beauty is common yadda yadda, but then I told them about Mystery and who he was.. and all that jazz.
They found it pretty interesting and in the end agreed that guys need to have more balls and take control of the frame in a conversation.
Cant argue with human instinct can ya?

Peace,

Suave

An important point to think of before meeting women online

Alright. So. You want to meet women online?
You want to have a steady flow of messages from women inside of your inbox.
You want to have dates every day of the week.
There is nothing wrong with that, but I have have had a few teleconferences with some PUAs from around the US on this topic and we discussed the topic thoroughly. We did not cover technique to much, but we did cover how investing to much time into your online game can really taper your success in the field.
Our body's are adaptive. The more time we invest into something, the more time our body subconsciously becomes better at. If we spend to much time typing away on myspace, we are wasting time that could be invested into something more beneficial in the field.
If you follow these few rules I have put together you will be able to create a balance between your online sarging and your everyday in field sarging.

1. Understand that Online is OnlineAlthough it can transfer into a real world meeting. Remember. Online is online. Although it is super easy to meet chicks this way, it takes away from the actual feeling of natural occurrence. When something is natural, women tend to believe it at face value. Since she has to deal with a bunch of dopes each day telling her that they want to pickle smack her.

2. When Meeting, Maintain Your State. The last thing she wants to see is a completely different guy that she was talking to over the messages.

3. If She Flakes, Forget Her. I know some guys who get bent up when a girl from MS flakes on them. Alright? All they really have to understand is that there are many different of reasons to why she did this.

Those are just a few, but me and Heartsin from DiscountPUA.com are going to be hosting a teleconference sometime over December that will cover a large amount of topics when it comes to meeting women on social networking sites.

Saturday, November 22, 2008

www.DiscountPua.Com

A good buddy of mine from here in Chicago has started a new forum here . Our Chicago community is growing daily and we will be offering some high quality seminars/bootcamps for a fraction of the price. You can't beat it. Quality and valuable information...
I am a moderator and a guest poster. Although we are in the new stages it is going to explode.
Chicago Domination @ Discount PUA
Sign up at DiscountPua.com and join our community. You will not regret it.

-Suave

Monday, November 17, 2008

How to Make Money With Your Blog

Alright. I just got an email from Craig V from California and he was curious to know how I make money online. Well. I am not going to say my blog makes me millions, but it does pay enough money for me to go out and party on the weekends.
First and most importantly you need a blog. Sign up for blogger.com.

A dear friend of mine has been doing it for years and I learned a lot from him. His name is Tim McMahon and he is located in Chicago IL. Check out his blog at Make Money With Your Blog. He is a very intelligent guy and specializes in helping small businesses get noticed on the internet.

You can email him. He has told me that the first twenty five people who email him, he will give a free on email consultation. He will personally help you make money from your computer.

Aside from that, if you have any questions you can respond to my blog here.

Thank you.

Suave

Monday, November 3, 2008

PUA Field Report on "Why are you undressing me with your eyes opener?"

Yesterday, a few buddies of mine went out on a mission to find out what type of reaction women would have if I merely approached them and asked, "Why are you undressing me with your eyes?"
The results are as followed.

Girl 1.
Her response: "Why do you think that?"

My thoughts: If she questioned me about why I came to that assumption, there is a good chance that she was attracted to me.

Girl 2
Her response: "Dork." (Smile)

Girl 3
Her response: "Does your mother know you talk like that?"
My response: "Yea, and she tells me to approach semi-attractive women(sarcasm)
Her response: "Ha Ha" (smile)

Girl 4
Her reponse: "I am not. I was just looking at how funny your jacket is" (IOI)
My response: "Yea, one of my girlfriends knit it for me."
Her response: (smile)

Girl 6
Her response: "Get a life."

Girl 7
Her response: "Because I thought you needed some attention"

Girl 8
Her response: "OMG! I cant believe you said that"
Mine: "Yea, and your jacket kind of looks like a Zebra. Do you work at the Zoo?"
Hers: "I love animals!"
Mine: "I can tell, you seem to be getting all hot and bothered."
Hers: "(giggle)

Girl 9
Her response: "Why do you think that???"
(refer back to girl 1)

Girl 10
Her response: "You are funny!"
Mine: "Yea, I make people laugh and moan"
Hers: "Moan?"
Mine: "Yea, Moan."
Hers: "How?"
Mine: "Quit flirting with me, you are embarrassing yourself"
Hers: (Smile)
Mine: "What would your mother think of your actions?"
Hers: "(Laughing), There is a lot she does not know about me."
Mine: "Alright, seriously...You have got to stop trying to get into my pants."
Hers: "(Laughing), "Your wish is my command"
Mine: "Creepy. Are you some kind of genie? because if you are, I cant talk to you anymore. I have a huge crush on I Dream of Jeannie."
Hers: "Ha Ha Ha, I love her."
Mine: "I knew you like girls."
Hers: (Laughing)
Mine: "Listen, I gotta get out of here, but put your number in my phone. Program it as Jeannie fantasy girl, that way, if I ever feel the urge I can call you.
Hers: OKAY!

# close

Will post day two results soon.

Encounters with Confident Women

Today was a good day. I was attending my class as I do everyday, when I realized that I did not have any cigarettes on me. Me, being a cigarette addict, looked for a cigarette approached the first girl I saw smoking. She happened to be decent looking.
I approached her and said smoking kills. She responded with. "Get over it, we are all going to die someday."
I replied with, "good call, but your wit and ability to manipulate guys is not going to get you out of giving me a cigarette."
She giggled and reached into her purse.
I noticed that she had a little black planner book.
I accused her of being a pick up artist. She accused me of attempting to pick her up.
I told her that she would get a long with my sister at a sleepover, popcorn boytalk, and all that jazz.
I set a false time constraint, (I had class) and told her that it is dangerous to talk to strangers.
She slipped me her number on a notebook page.
Success.

David Deangelo Street Pick-up Advice

The art of being counter-intuitive.
David DeAngelo on being against the norm in everyday street pickups.

Free PUA Field Guide

Although I have not read through this entire manual, it has some valuable information.

It seems to rip mystery off a lot, which is not cool, but at least he gives the intellectual rights to the rightful owner.

Free PUA Field Guide

The Rules by: Fein and Schneider

The Rules
After hearing about this book in one of David Deangelo's postings, I thought it would be an important factor to consider in the seduction community. As much as it is sexist towards men, it will greatly help you understand the mind of women. Not just women, but women who are good at the game. If you want a challenge, then I recommend picking this book up. I picked it up at Barnes and Noble for a measly 10 dollars. The chapter on "Phone Calling" is worth the ten dollars itself.

The Wing Girl Method

The Wing Girl Method?
Hm....(Inserted David Deangelo hm to create tensions)
I do not know if I can get a grasp onto this one.
It seems almost as if they are not very sure what they are teaching.
Looks like a marketing ploy. David D could have taught this.
It goes against many of the thoughts and beliefs, but they try to
catch up in the end.


Sunday, November 2, 2008

Free PUA Ebook

I have recently put together an Ebook that is free to the public. PUA Book Ebook.
It can be downloaded and viewed 25Quick Tips That Trigger Attraction.
Enjoy.

My Interpretation of the 3 Second Rule

The three second rule. On fast Fast Seduction's 3 Second Rule it states (and many others state) that a man has three seconds to approach a girl before he starts to display lower value. As the time eats away, his value is dramatically dropping.

It is important to make everything look natural. As I have mentioned before "the moment" means everything to women. If you notice an attractive women while you are at the bar, make eye contact, look away, and then do not approach her, you are dramatically decreasing your chances. Since you did not approach her or make her presence known, it is pretty much over.
MAN UP AND HAVE SOME BALLS.

Five Peacock Items That Work

1.Pendant
A pendant can create some pretty easy IOI's.
Guitar Pick Necklace- Magic

2.A Ring
Do not be to flashy, but definitely find some sort of ring that you can tell a story about, or weave into a story to DHV.

3.Mismatching Shoelaces
Believe it or not, a good friend of mine has been very successful with this. It is ridiculous. At first, I was thinking that this would DLV, but in fact it has been a great opener in any scenario.

4. Belt Buckle
There are hundreds out there. Try Buckles to find one that best suits you.

5. Piercing
Instant IOI catcher. Try something you usually wouldnt do. I am not saying to walk out with holes in your face, but be creative.

http://www.fastseduction.com

Fastseduction.com is a remarkable community in which much valuable information can be obtained. Do yourself a favor and do not let it completely change your identity. Some of the posts on here are ridiculous.

Style: Neil Strauss: The Game

It is remarkable to understand how intelligent this man is. Not only,does he accurately explain some valuable information in this short interview, but he is calm, poise, and true alpha. I love how Jimmy Kimmel DLVs himself all throughout the interview.

Opener of the Day:

What kind of girls do you like?

Try it, You will be astonished.

Drinking Screws Up Your Game

1. Liquid Courage
Liquid courage as the old timers used to call it.
I used to be a heavy drinker, until I realized all of the benefits of not drinking.
When we do not drink in a PUA atmosphere, it is surprising how perceptive we can be. This will result in less flakes, and less nervousness on day 2s. How are you supposed to talk about yesterday if you do not remember it?

Why did she flake on you?

1.You were clingy
When she gave you her phone number, and you danced around and got all excited, you lost it there buddy. If it does not look natural then you've gotta build up your inner game.

2.She is not in the moment anymore
SYou are not in her mind. She cannot remember what your face looks like. You didnt make that much of an impression. These are all possibilities. This is why I recommend planning something while you are in the moment. This way, if she flakes on you, there is a recovery period for you.

3. She heard something about you
Girls talk...and talk... and talk.. and talk.
We cannot blame them though. It is a defense mechanism that protects them from getting hurt. If you have built a bad reputation, there is a good chance that it could have contributed. This is especially particular if you are quite popular in your circle or area.

4. She actually had something to do
Girls are beautiful human beings guys. They are human beings. If you objectify them, then there is a good chance you will not see that they in fact, have things that come up out of no where.

5. She really was not into at all, and she felt bad
Sad, but true. It happens. Some girls cannot be direct. Move on and do not let it bother you. There are many out there.

PUA Day 2 Ideas

1.Mall
She is going to help you pick out some new clothes. Do display any lower value here, but merely tell her you are interested in what kind of style she sees you as. Make it an adventure.

2.The Park
Swings, Monkey Bars, etc.. Build mad rapport and comfort.

3.This is my gem:Drive In: 50s Style Hotdog Stand
This one is pretty much money. Talk, eat (not like a pig), comfort build.

4.Concert

How Many Days To Wait To Call

That is a million dollar question.
I have my own belief, but before reading this, it may help to read When To Call.

I have gotten many emails asking me when it is good to call a girl after she has given you her number.
I have put together a strict game-plan (changeable by situation of course).

Bars and Clubs
Bar or Club. If the alcohol is flowing, CALL THE NEXT DAY. Mystery and Style have said that if you are in a bar and club, and she is moderately good looking, she has given her number out to many that night. Call her up. Do not day 2 it yet. DHV and make it short. Always hang up first.
Call two days later and set up a day 2.

Street, Coffee Shops, Mall
Three days. DHV and comfort build shortly on phone. Set up a day 2 on the phone.

David Deangelo: A Fraud or a Genious

David Deangelo...
From his program Double Your Dating along with other audio and video courses,he has created a gigantic following. It is quite evident that he is no dummy. I have followed much of his work and have become a firm believe in many of his theories. Cocky, Funny. On Being a Man, Mastery Program, Body Language. I have taken a deeper look into all of his products and found out that his products were very effective. As buyers, we should be skeptic on everything we do buy. How are we supposed to believe it is the real deal?
Well. I am here to alleviate all of your worries. Although David is an extremely successful marketer of his products, can you blame him? His products have changed people's lives for the good. Can we judge a product merely because it is marketed so well? Well..... Mcdonalds makes us believe differently, but if you have every attended one of David's seminars, you would know that he is an excellent speaker, remarkably charismatic, and and overall good looking guy. It is not his fault that he is the way he is.
By looking at his products and following up on the theories presented. I have come to the conclusion that anyone can benefit from them. Even if you think you are a superfly pimp. Learning about the critical counterintuitive and instinctive courtship will blow your mind... Epiphany.

Real Social Dynamics Review

I am a man of morals. Recently, I have taken a liking to the studies of social dynamics, male-female interaction, and scientifically structured views on dating. Mystery, a well known "pick-up" artist in the seduction community has developed a method known as the Mystery Method. Many women cringe at the site of his products and believe he is some sort of manipulative male. The truth is, he is just like any other male. Far more intelligent and very scientific. After researching his program and methods I have realized that in no way is he a womanizer. The only thing he truly wants is men to be able to treat women the way it was meant to be. His evidence is based off of various biological and human behavior studies.
After following this program for quite some time now, I have became a part of the community due to my longing for knowledge and quest for answers. I came across these guys at Real Social Dynamics. The motivational and insight these guys give to everyday normal people, who are not very good with women, is extraordinary. They are truly there to help. They are there to help these men discover what it truly means to be a man. They have a free newsletter and me myself, have attended one of their programs. It completely blew my mind and confirmed much of the research I was already conducting. If you want to take a deeper look into RSD click the link the image and it will redirect you to their page. Go for it!

Five Must Have Items to Bring Out on a Date

1. Cell phone- You never know when there is going to be some sort of emergency. It is always imperative to have your cell phone charged fully before going out.

2. Gum- I cannot stress the importance enough. This one dollar investment can be the difference between, going home alone, or staying at her place. I recommend Orbit... and you have to admit. Their marketing strategy is pretty hilarious.

3.Cologne Now, some people may argue with me here, but a little cologne goes a long way. Not only does it make you smell good, but it also gives the idea that you are prepared and being respectful in a dating atmosphere. AND GUYS. Do yourself a favor and do not spray on something that smells like you just came out of a locker room. Axe and Tag are out of the question. I have had immense success and compliments from wearing the cologne Diesel Fuel For Life. It is absolutely hypnotizing. Be classy, don't take an axe bath.

4.Credit Card---Some guys are very anti-credit card, but in a pinch when your money runs low, it is important to have one. If you are a college student, apply for some sort of college student credit card with a low limit so that you don't end up falling into debt.

5.Condoms---You never know when the mood might strike, or what might happen. TROJAN MAN!

Social Networking Sites, Reality TV, and Girls

The world of dating has changed drastically with the develop of social networking sites such as Myspace and reality television. Shows such as Paris Hilton's New BFFs have changed the way many young girls view the idea of friendship. These terrible stereotypes prey on the identities of young teenagers who are merely looking for role models and guidance. Although, in my opinion, it is the parent's responsibility to prepare these young girls for the real world, MTV's marketing department knows that these shows sell.
Anti-MTV is a website that warns the newer generation of how the music industry manipulates the lives of average people and turns their identities into profit raking ventures.
Although this website is targeted towards dating success, I believe that this is an important topic to throw out into the open. Parent's should warn their young ones (even though it is hard for them to understand) about the dangers present in everyday television.